This unisex foaming yoni bath butter/sugar scrub is perfect for the man in your life.ย It will help keep your guy smelling fresher for longer in all parts of their bodies. The ingredients in the product help remove bad odor and promote a truly fresh and clean body, rather than a body masked with the smell of overpowering fragrances. This design was specifically formulated to treat your body after shaving or suffering from itchiness. The wash does not leave your body stripped. If you love the feeling of exfoliating with a sugar scrub but hate the oiliness left, then this is perfect for you. It leaves your skin soft and supple but not overly greasy. This wash consists of some of the finest ingredients curated to soothe, cleanse and maintain your body for the day or relax you before bed.
Benefits include:
-Exfoliating skin
-perfect for use after shaving
-prevent ingrown hair and razor bumps
-Removes Bad Odor
-leaves skin soft and supple.
Ingredients: Sugar , SCI , Coco Betaine Rosehip oil,ย Avocado Oil, Argan Oil,Jojoba Oil Coconut Oil, glycerin, Argan Oil, Jojoba Beads, Olive Oil infused with Organic Rose Petals and Buds, Calendula, Red Raspberry, Mugwort, Rosemary, Peppermint, Chamomile, Lavender, Red clovers, Lavender Essential Oil, Lemongrass Essential Oil, Peppermint Essential Oil, fragrance(less than .5%)
SCI is a gentle surfactant-based fatty acid derived from coconut oil. It acts as a foaming and cleansing agent. It is a top-performing very gentle surfactant used in all kinds of products and applications where a formulator wants a gentle to the skin, nice foaming surfactant that is sulfate-free.
Coco-Betaine is a natural surfactant, based from coconut.
Mica Powder pigment is added for color, it's non - toxic and NOT absorbed by the skin
Always consult your health care professional if pregnant, breastfeeding, on medications or homeopathic remedies before using any essential oil products.
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How to use: Made for daily use. Wash bikini area and body. Do not apply in vaginal canal or labia as sugar my irritate that area.
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I made a mental note to give you 3 days of grace because before this i could see you have been consistent and genuinely trying . I don't know what you have going on tbh, but something must be off for you to do a 180 . At this point you know I'm here if you need to talk ,but I'm not going to pressure you to talk about it if you're not ready to. I know you've been busy at work and maybe you're depressed again , either way I hope you're good and figure it out.
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You're not giving me much to work with. I have tried to be patient , but I feel like sometime you make it kind of hard. I don't even mind giving you space as you can tell but you literally have been a shitty communicator and acting like its ok. Despite me already expressing how that makes me feel . I don't get so much as an explanation for your 180. I don't know if you care but it definitely hurts my feeling to go from having plans to see you this weekend , toย not doing that and also having you basically become unresponsive,ย when all you had to do was say hey super busy/sick/tired/sadย Im not in a head space to talk .
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So at this point I'm not giving my full effort If you're not going to reciprocate that or express when that can happen.ย You're literally not the only person who goes through things and im not giving you excuses anymore.ย I was fine not talking in the week minus a hi. You went out of your way to speak during the week which isn't what we said . Then you switch up. So we can go back to doing just that because I don't hate you but you're not going to get access to me when you feel like so we can do thing on our terms not just yoursย
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Don't do that. I made a mental note to give you 3 days of grace, because I saw you were trying before , but that grace period has past. I have tried to be patient and kind to you since I met you.ย If you have any respect for me , dont play in my face act like how youve beenย is ok.ย At this point I'm annoyed , and my feelings are very hurt. If you dont see any need to acknowledge that and at least give context then it is what it is.ย
You talk about having partners switch up on you. Partners be mean to you. Feeling like you can't be vulnerable in front of peopleย and you met someone who has been consistent , kind , and wanted you to have a safe space to express yourself and this is how you act with me. Self sabotage at its finest . You enjoy that though. I'm not going to be trying more then you're trying anymore.ย
I made a mental note to give you 3 days of grace, because I saw felt like you were trying before , but that grace period has past.ย If you have any respect for me , dont play in my face act like how youve been is ok. You genuinely hurt my feelings. If you dont see any need to acknowledge thatย then it is what it is.ย
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Youโre a very sweet person, I do appreciate you trying to help.ย
I just need to focus on my work and getting my finances to where I need them to be, that goal needs to take precedence over anything else in my life. I canโt think about my happiness or my health in this moment.ย
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If it makes you feel better, I do have something that I should tell you now that weโre on this subject.ย
When I was 5 years old I was diagnosed with clinical depression, it was never treated and I was never medicated, Iโve been sad my entire life, Iโm used to it.Itโs very mentally taxing.ย
You get to a point where your stress and your concerns completely take over and you donโt have energy to engage in anything at all.ย
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I donโt want us to stop talking, in general, ever if possible.ย
Like I said from the very beginning, even if things donโt work out between us I still value you as a person and would love to build a friendship with you if I can.ย
I just donโt want to hurt you.ย
What if I made a mistake and Iโm just not ready for a relationship or I simply donโt have enough time or energy or even desire to an extent right now to devote to the relationship.ย
I donโt really know the answer just yet but If that is the case then I would much rather us become platonic now rather than later to avoid hurting both of us later on.Definitely anxious too, I have a lot of pressure on my plate.
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And Iโm sorry, I tend to just disappear when I get overwhelmed until I get in the right headspace to answer.ย
I should work on communicating better during these episodes but Iโve never been able to figure out how.ย
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Yes, I agree. Should have definitely been a phone call.ย
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I donโt think I made a mistake in talking to you because I got to know a really cool person and Iโm grateful for that. I just think maybe I made a mistake in thinking that I was ready for anything more.ย
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I feel like weโre very similar in many ways, just hearing you talk and reading your words, I see myself in you more than you know.
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Sorry for the lack of a response, wasnโt too sure how to respond up until now.
I appreciate your message.ย
I hope to see you down the line at some point, even if it is just as friends.ย
Iโve enjoyed our time together and Iโm very grateful that we met.ย
Thank you for everything, I wish you the absolute best in your personal and professional life/career.ย
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I hope we do continue to talk but I understand if youโd like to take some time to think and evaluate the situation.ย
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Oh and I didnโt want to tell you but that โcomplexโ was something that my ex and her mom beat into me.ย
Heard that for so long that I guess itโs been ingrained into my personality, I consider it just a normal way to think at this point.
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And yeah, maybe we will โฅ๏ธ
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I was watching a video and someone said they are practicing trying to not mind what happens that's the fun part of life and it sparked this response from me . I have a big problem feeling like I'm not enough and Ive been working on it for a while .However I think ive regressed on the progress ive made in healing my anxious attachment , because I realized I feel like I'm auditioning for a part in your life and I don't want to feel that way.
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I dont think you're a bad person or purposely trying to make me feel that way. I think you're honest with where you're at in your own journey and in your own way trying to protect me. I know you've tried and are still trying in your own way. I just don't know what the goal even is anymore.
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I really only crave deep connections with my partners . Like I want to shower in the dark and get washed or wash you. I want to be happy chilling in silence .I want to shake my ass while cleaning . I want to dance to random songs and then bully you and kiss you right after. I want to feel like I want to be in your skin and I don't want to feel like i'm too much because I want that .
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You know I've tried . I know I've tried , but I don't have anymore plans to try and figure out away to make this work because I think the goal post is getting lost the more I do that.
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I say all of that to say I don't know how I'll show up in your life anymore but it has to be different because I'm detaching myself from the idea of wanting this to work out. We've been talking for 3 months and that's a short time , but it feels longer. I can't be holding on to that for another 3 months. Not because I'm mad at you or I don't care about you , but I cant wait around for the perfect moment where you realize im enough(because its not even about you i need to figure that out in myself). So moving forward I have to go and put myself back out there and live life.
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Im sure this all sounds like im about to stop talking to you , but thats not the case. If I'm honest I had intentions on doing that at least 4 times that you don't know about , but every time I was stopped /or there was Interference. So I've accepted I'm supposed to be in your life for some reason or vice versa, I just don't know exactly why yet and I'm okay with that. Plus I dont want to hurt you because I learned it is damaging to show up in people's life when they are sad and do what I did which is trying to really really be there for you you and then if I just leave like that it would be disingenuous on my part and hurtful to you. I'm sure you're probably wondering why would I care at this point about you getting a bit hurt , I don't have an answer for you other than I just do. I've always cared about you . I just need to take care of myself and protect myself to in the process.
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So yes this situation was frustrating and I may have wanted more, but getting to know you and meet you is now enough . You probably don't realize it but you taught me alot and helped me at a time I needed it most. I hope you know my intentions of wanting to be there for you and be an actual friend to you are real and being able to help you even 1% is enought to make me happy and make it worth it .ย
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So the romantic ball is now in your court , now until the unforseen future. I just might not be able to catch it when youre ready to throw it back. The friendship ball came with 2 balls so just know youll always will have someone in your corner even if it's from afar. So we can keep those biweekly meetings as long as we continue to enjoy each others company. Without the extra hands. All I ask is that you dont play with my emotions in the process .
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